Be on the Watch for Child Abuse

Wednesday started out to be one of the most emotional days of my life. My grandson entered Kindergarten and the thought of him being out of my care for the first time scared me to death. I kept thinking about his safety. I’m the type of parent that doesn’t allow my children to really go with anyone. I have a small circle of family I fully trust, but anyone who knows me knows I question everything and everyone.

If the day wasn’t already full of emotions, I received several phone calls, emails and private messages concerning rumors of a couple being investigated for child pornography. My first instinct was anger. How dare they prey on innocent children? My best friend Lee Roberts and I run a non-profit organization, Advocates United for Humanity. We do everything in our power to stop these horrific events from occurring and now rumor has that it’s happening in the area.

Walk for Children in Clinton County.
Walk for Children in Clinton County.

I have been advocating, writing educational books and testifying before lawmakers for the rights of children for the last 10 years. The things I have seen and heard are more horrible than any award winning screen writer could ever bring to the big screen. These monsters did not come from the swamp or from outer-space and they don’t attack teenagers on a camping trip. These monsters live next door and attack the most innocent among us … our children.

Regardless of anyone’s opinions or personal beliefs, abusers are usually well-known and liked by both you and your child. Abusers can be a parent, relative, family friend, teacher, coach or anyone. They can be a man or woman, married or single. They can hold any religious belief, and have any sexual preference. These abusers seem as normal as you and I on the outside but are sick and twisted on the inside.

I wish people would understand anyone CAN be an abuser. Education or intelligence doesn’t prevent them from abusing, molesting or sexually trafficking your child. Abusers live and work among us; as a stable, employed, and respected member of the community … They become our friends and co-workers, and we quickly convince ourselves we know them, but the harsh reality is we don’t. This world is full of sick and truly evil people.

Abusers easily convince your child they are responsible for their wrongful behavior. They may threaten your child with physical violence against them, you, a pet, or loved one. They are good at manipulating and controlling children through fear. Control makes an abuser feel powerful. How could anyone feel powerful over a small, scared, defenseless child? Only a coward could …

Just because someone has a good reputation, a good job, nice house, fancy car, wealth or are a pillar of the community – they CAN still be an abuser. It’s not the weirdo on the corner you have to fear. Some of the biggest abusers are the ones you know, respect and trust the most. Be careful who you trust your child with. When someone tries to get close or takes a special interest in your child ask yourself why.

I can definitely say my career path has shaped the way I parent. I question everything and everyone. Regardless. I learned it’s important to look for signs of abuse, grooming behavior, strange interactions with other children and adults or my child’s behavior and to always ask questions. The best gift you can give your child is open communication and knowledge. The knowledge to speak out and protect themselves from these monsters. These abusers are pros at being deceptive. I know it really sucks that we have to teach our children that there are people out there that want to hurt them, but we do. I’d rather be vigilant than a vigilante after the fact.

Donna M. Kshir is a 15x bestselling author (2008-2016), publisher and columnist featured in over 50 books. She is a writer who seeks truth and justice for children exposed to abuse. She speaks out and writes against these injustices done onto children. Donna’s work has landed her on the bestsellers list multiple times.

Donna is an activist. She used her influence in the growth of gaining national support for nonprofit Dreamcatchers for Abused Children (2008-2015). In 2009, Donna created, produced and hosted Dreamcatchers Talk Radio. She resigned in 2015 to become the face and producer of Your Voice Radio’s, Two Nana’s at Noon. She also used her influence in the growth of gaining national support for Conner’s Law, making child abuse by death a violent crime in Kentucky. Donna received a Letter of Recommendation from Conner’s mother Mashanna Bachuss in 2019. In June 2016 she and her best friend and sister advocate Lee Roberts co-founded Advocates United for Humanity. Donna is a member of the Nonfiction Authors Association, she received the NNPAAW Award (2012-2018), She’s a 2019 nominee of the Pinnacle Awards and the 2019 Diamond Quill Lifetime Achievement Award recipient. In November 2020, Donna and Roberts served as Co-Editors to honor friend Stephen Miller’s release Waterfalls and Cascades of the Pennsylvania Wilds. The duo’s program ‘Real Talk’ podcast on AU4H RADIO began airing on iHeart Radio in 2021. Advocates United for Humanity introduced a petition to make the private Central Registery public on July 22, 2021.

Donna writes under several pen names and advocates for those in need. Her most recent penname, Gladys Caroline, is to pay tribute to her late maternal grandmother. A woman who truly impacted her life. She has spent much of her life dedicated to giving back to her community. Donna has volunteered her time and talents with various non-profit organizations over her lifetime, animal rights, volunteered at her children’s schools and gives of herself as she is able with God guiding her journey, as her health allows. She enjoys a quiet laidback lifestyle with her family. 
 
For more on Donna, visit some of her official websites!!
 
Official website: www.donnakshir.weebly.com  
 
Advocates United for Humanity
 
AU4H: http://au4h.weebly.com/
 
AU4H RADIO – Real Talk 
 
iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-au4h-radio-real-talk-78312009/
Anchor: https://anchor.fm/au4h-radio
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/56trQHpLoD83aarD5lYfXC
Archive: https://archive.org/details/fav-au4h_radio
Google Podcast: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80Y2ViY2ViYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw==
 
Northern Books
 
NB: http://northernbooks.weebly.com/
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Donna-M.-Kshir/e/B0047J94EI
Barnes and Nobles: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/a-story-of-survival-donna-kshir/1030116262?ean=9781329084957
Lulu Publishing: https://www.lulu.com/spotlight/donnakshir
 
 
Petitions
 
Change.org: http://chng.it/W4vHFRC4SM
 
Blog/Media Outlets
 
Wordpress: https://donnakshir.wordpress.com/
NewsBlaze: https://newsblaze.com/author/d123/
EZineArticles: https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Donna_Kshir/1034330
 
YouTube
 
https://www.youtube.com/c/DonnaKshir