How to Get a Guy Interested In You by Elite Connections

How to get a guy interested in you, may be a task you find challenging as a woman. Elite Connections, one of the world’s most esteemed matchmakers, provides here free advice on how to get attention from a man, and how to get a guy interested in you.

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Tips and Tricks from Elite Connections on How to Get a Guy Interested In You

Elite Connections Tips, Image: Pretty Woman, Photo Credit: Prayitno, source: Wikicommons
Image: Pretty Woman, Photo Credit: Prayitno, source: Wikicommons

If you’re looking to capture a guy’s interest and make a positive first impression, there are several strategies to employ. While every individual is unique, here are some general tips from Elite Connections, a premiere matchmaker, to help you get a guy interested in you.

10 Ideas To Consider

  1. Be confident: Confidence is attractive and can draw people towards you. Believe in yourself and showcase your positive qualities without being arrogant. Have good posture. Don’t slouch. Hold your head up high at times to show your neck. Don’t keep your head hanging down too much.
  2. Take care of your appearance: While physical appearance isn’t everything, it’s important to present yourself in a way that makes you feel confident. Dress in a way that suits your style and highlights your best features. If it fits your style, dress sexy, but not trashy. If you are a cowgirl, and want to wear some cowgirl boots like the woman pictured here, go for it. No guy in his right mind will end a date or stop seeing a woman, even if he thinks her wardrobe is ridiculous, as long as she looks great otherwise. Black nylons, high heels, and eye catching lipstick are attractive to many guys if it looks natural on the right woman, and can help a guy get interested in you in the looks department. A skirt, or a nice dress showing your legs can also help get more attention from a guy, rather than wearing a pantsuit for example. If you want a more traditional guy, consider having longer hair than he does!
  3. Show genuine interest: Engage in conversations with the guy and show a sincere interest in him. Ask open-ended questions to get to know him better and actively listen to his responses. This will make him feel valued and create a connection between you. Be natural, not fake. If you don’t know something, don’t fake it. Ask him to show you or teach you, which most guys like to do.
  4. Be yourself: Authenticity is key. Don’t try to be someone you’re not or pretend to have interests that you don’t genuinely share. Be true to yourself and let your personality shine through. Be you. Don’t say you agree with things you don’t, and don’t say you like things you don’t.
  5. Display a positive attitude: Positivity is contagious and attractive. Maintain an optimistic outlook and try to see the good in situations. This will make you a pleasant person to be around. Don’t talk badly about others or insult former dates. Treat others around you on your date nice, include the waitress or waiter, and other women. Don’t show jealousy around women you think are more attractive than you. That turns a guy off.
  6. Develop common interests: Find out about his hobbies and interests and explore areas where you share common ground. Engaging in activities or discussions related to these interests can help build a bond and keep the conversation flowing. Offer to try something new with him, like a new sport or going to a concert in a new style of music you may not ordinarily listen to. Be open minded.
  7. Maintain a sense of mystery: While it’s important to be open and genuine, avoid revealing every detail about yourself right away. Leave some aspects of your life and personality to be discovered gradually, creating intrigue and making him want to learn more about you.
  8. Flirt subtly: Flirting can be a playful way to indicate your interest. Smile, make eye contact, and use light touches or gentle teasing to create a flirty atmosphere. However, be mindful of boundaries and respect personal space. Laughing together is a good way to bond, as is dancing.
  9. Be supportive: Show genuine support for his goals and ambitions. Encourage his endeavors and celebrate his achievements. Being a positive presence in his life can deepen the connection and make him appreciate your presence.
  10. Give him space: While it’s important to spend time together, it’s equally important to respect his personal space and individuality. Allow him to pursue his own interests and maintain his independence. This demonstrates that you are secure and confident in yourself. Don’t try to control him. You don’t need to play hard to get, but don’t act obsessed or overbearing. Don’t blow up his phone too much with texts or calls.

Remember, building a connection takes time and effort from both sides. It’s essential to be patient and allow relationships to develop naturally. Good luck!

Elite Connections Contacts

For more free advice on attracting the right man or woman, and a free consulaton, contact Elite Connections.

Elite Connections International matchmaking is an exclusive private dating agency for successful busy professionals. The company was established in 1994 and maintains an “A+” business rating. Their elite matchmaking services cater to selective, single clients that are too busy with their careers or tired of online apps and singles bars. Find a matchmaker at Elite Connections offices located in cities including Los Angeles, Miami, New York, San Diego, Newport Beach, Palos Verdes, Westlake Village, Bay Area, and Chicago. They work internationally as well.

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