Michael Oher Interview With Kam Williams
By Kam Williams
Homeless Foster Kid-Turned-NFL Star Shares Flip Side of "The Blind Side"
Michael Oher was born on May 28, 1986 in Memphis, Tennessee, where he negotiated a perilous path through the foster care system, experiencing periods of homelessness. He eventually attended Briarcrest Christian School and met Sean and Leigh-Anne Tuohy, who became his adoptive parents.
His inspirational story is the subject of Michael Lewis' book, The Blind Side: Evolution of a Game, which was adapted to the screen in 2009 as The Blind Side, starring Sandra Bullock in an Oscar-winning performance. Oher currently lives in Maryland where he is an offensive lineman for the Baltimore Ravens of the National Football League.
After playing college football at the University of Mississippi for the Ole Miss Rebels, he was drafted by the Ravens in the first round of the 2009 NFL Draft.
Following his first year in the league, he was named to both the Pro Football Weekly All-Rookie team and the USA Today All-Joe Team. He also earned NFL Rookie of the Month honors for December and recently completed a second successful season with the Ravens, making the playoffs.
Here, Michael talks about his new autobiography, I Beat the Odds.
Kam Williams: Hi Michael, thanks for the time.
Michael Oher: No problem. What's up?
Kam Williams: You and the Ravens had an excellent season. How'd you feel when your season ended in Pittsburgh with that loss to the Steelers on a last-minute Roethlisberger TD pass?
Kam Williams: What'd you think of the Super Bowl?
Michael Oher: I just couldn't bear to look at it. I watched a total of about four minutes.
Kam Williams: I told my readers I'd be interviewing you and they sent in a million questions.
Michael Oher: Hopefully, you won't give me a million, ay?
Kam Williams: Well, we have limited time, so let's see how many we can get to. Let me start by asking how did you manage to make it all the way to the NFL, given the neighborhood you came from and your challenging childhood?
Michael Oher: There's a big difference between where I came from and the NFL. Things like this don't happen to people from there often. It just took a lot of hard work and dedication, staying on the right path, believing in myself, and having an inner drive.
Kam Williams: Peter Keough asks: Why did you write your autobiography? Was it because you felt misrepresented by The Blind Side?
Michael Oher: I kinda wanted to clear some things up after I got thousands of letters from people who looked up to me, telling me I was such an inspiration, and that they wanted to follow in my footsteps. And that if I could do it, they could do it. I wanted to send out a positive message and let them know that you don't need a wealthy family to come in and save you, like they saw in The Blind Side, because I felt that I always had an inner drive deep, down inside. So, I just want to be an encouraging voice for those who don't believe they can make it.
Kam Williams: Kathy Ancar says: In the movie, there is a restaurant scene where you embrace a young waiter who turns to be your brother. Have you reconnected with your biological siblings?
Michel Oher: I've always been connected to them and maintained those relationships. That scene in the movie was just Hollywood.
Kam Williams: Yale grad Tommy Russell asks: What do you think can be done on the national level to increase awareness about the size of the foster system in America and to help kids caught up in it?
Michael Oher: As you know, I put a lot of the unfortunate statistics in my book. But there are a ton of us who've been through the foster care system who are successful. Basically, I hope I've started something off by putting my story out there. Now we need others to share their stories and let everybody know what the real deal is and that it is possible to beat the odds.
Kam Williams: Larry Greenberg says: You have a personal story that seems like the stuff of an epic saga. Where do you weigh in on the relative importance of destiny, luck, and perseverance?
Michael Oher: All of them are important factors. I'd say you need all three.
Kam Williams: Mirah Riben asks: What was it like being black and joining a white family?
Michael Oher: That really wasn't a big deal for me, although obviously there were some adjustments, since the Tuohy's had a different lifestyle from what I was accustomed to. But there was a lot of love, and that's what helped to spark a great relationship.
Kam Williams: Teresa Emerson asks: Are you still close with the Tuohys?
Michael Oher: Yes, they're still family. We talk every day, and they come to every one of my games.
Kam Williams: Teresa would also like to know if* *you have any contact with your birth mother.
Michael Oher: We're not as close as we used to be but, hopefully, we'll get back to where we once were in the future.
Kam Williams: Editor/Legist Patricia Turnier was wondering if you have a message of hope for kids and young people who are in a similar predicament to the one that you were in.
Michael Oher: Like I said before, you don't need to win the lottery or for somebody to come save you. I'm a living testimony to that. If you want to do it, it is possible.
Kam Williams: Attorney Bernadette Beekman says: Your story is incredibly moving and it's a joy to see your success. Many African-American youth who have not been blessed with the same good fortune of a loving adoptive family and benefactors suffer from an incredible achievement gap, mostly due to lack of educational opportunities. How do you think we can help them?
Michael Oher: By devoting the time to sit down with a kid, one-on-one, and just letting them know that they can do it. That's all that it takes, giving them the confidence.
Kam Williams: Harriet Pakula Teweles says: Your story is not just about beating the odds; it's nothing short of a miracle. Can we engineer miracles-without the help of angels?
Michael Oher: That's the same as asking do you believe in God. Of course, we all need angels. I had to have one over my head throughout my life, even right now. The odds of my making it were slim to none. So you have to have an angel. You have to believe.
Kam Williams: Felicia Haney asks: Do you plan to be a foster or adoptive parent?
Michael Oher: I can't say right now. I'd have to see down the road. But I'd love to look into it and, hopefully, save a life as well.
Kam Williams: Reverend Florine Thompson asks: What would be the one thing you would most like to change about the foster care system?
Michael Oher: I think there's a need for more oversight by social workers, because there are a lot of foster parents who are just collecting checks. They need to look closely into the backgrounds of the people whose hands you're putting the kids into and then continue to monitor them.
Kam Williams: Is there any question no one ever asks you, that you wish someone would?
Michael Oher: No.
Kam Williams: The Columbus Short question: Are you happy?
Michael Oher: Very.
Kam Williams: The Teri Emerson question: When was the last time you had a good laugh?
Michael Oher: I have a good laugh all the time. Very often.
Kam Williams: The bookworm Troy Johnson question: What was the last book you read?
Michael Oher: I Beat the Odds.
Kam Williams: Thanks again for the interview, Michael, and best of luck with the book and with the Ravens next season.
Michael Oher: Thank you, Kam.
Kam Williams is a syndicated film and book critic who writes for 100+ publications. He is a member of the New York Film Critics Online, the African-American Film Critics Association, and the NAACP Image Awards Nominating Committee. Contact him through NewsBlaze.
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