Published: March 06, 2008
You're Not Alone: How Mothers of Children Born with Rare Condition Comfort and Support Each Other on CarePages.com
CHICAGO, March 6 /PRNewswire/ -- "Something's wrong with your baby."
Words a pregnant woman dreads to hear. Especially when her doctor says
that "something" is called an omphalocele, which means her baby will be born
with some of his or her abdominal organs (e.g., liver and intestine) outside
of the body protected by a membrane sac.
Sarah Doyle, 29, and her 32-year-old husband Mike received this news in
December 2006 when she was 19 weeks pregnant. In March 2007, one month before
her scheduled C-section, she started her CarePage for her son Aidan. She soon
discovered a community of support for a harrowing ordeal, which finally is
nearing its end.
"Before I knew it the site had 100 visitors and it's now over 300, and
we've been overwhelmed by their kindness, encouragement and prayers," she
says. "I also found other mothers of children with omphaloceles in the
CarePages directory. My goal is to use CarePages and our email support group,
Mothers of Omphaloceles (MOO), to help other parents understand their options
and realize they're not alone."
Aidan was born April 11, 2007 and has spent his entire life on a
ventilator in intensive care units, mostly at Children's HospitalBoston an
affiliate of Harvard Medical School. Soon after his birth, doctors found that
he actually had Pentalogy of Cantrell, an extremely rare birth defect
(approximately 5 out of every 1 million births) that causes defects involving
the diaphragm, abdominal wall, pericardium, heart and lower sternum.
"Aidan's heart fell through a hernia in his diaphragm, and ended up in his
abdomen, covered only by skin. We could see it beating," says Sarah.
The Pentalogy of Cantrell defect is usually fatal, and Aidan had many
close calls in the early months, including turning blue on several occasions.
Sarah became quite knowledgeable about her son's birth defects, and began to
realize that many parents were unaware of recent advances in the treatment of
omphaloceles.
"The majority of 'O' babies do very well, but many of our new CarePages
and MOO members often comment how quickly they were told to terminate their
pregnancies," she says. "Our goal is to inform the public that they should not
lose hope after the diagnosis of an omphalocele because good options are
available."
After exhausting all conservative approaches to treatment, the Doyles
concurred with their physician late last year that surgery was the only
option. Starting December 3, Aidan had seven surgeries. Most of that time he
was heavily sedated and paralyzed, his muscle and fascia sutures hung from the
ceiling to stretch them in order to close the defect. The sutures were so
taut that Aidan was nearly levitating off the bed. On Christmas Eve, the
Doyles got the news that Aidan's belly was finally closed.
Mike wrote on his CarePage that afternoon, "Sarah and I will have our
little boy back for Christmas. It's the most wonderful thing I've ever
experienced in my life."
Aidan's health has continued to improve, and, in early February, Sarah was
able to hug him for the first time. If all goes according to plan, he will be
home for the first time later this month.
"We've received such a tremendous outpouring of support from family,
friends and some amazing people we've met only on CarePages," says Sarah.
"Many of the MOO parents, including us, have opened our CarePages to others
whose children were recently diagnosed with an omphalocele to give them some
idea of what to expect. Journaling in CarePages also has been therapeutic, and
our entries provide a valuable record of all his medications and treatments.
"I stay in touch with parents of omphaloceles through CarePages and MOO.
I'm inspired by Aidan and this whole experience to give back to others. People
tell me I've already earned an honorary degree in nursing and I might go into
this field when Aidan gets a little older. Right now I can't wait to wake up
every morning in our own home and see his smiling face."
CarePages.com facilitates emotional support during a health journey by
providing free, secure Web pages that enable patients and caregivers to
communicate and connect online with their own social network and to tap into
communities whose participants are experiencing similar challenges. Nearly 700
healthcare facilities inNorth America, including Children's HospitalBoston
where Aidan received his care, currently offer customized versions of
CarePages.com to their patients as part of their patient-centered care.
"I know what it's like to go through a healthcare crisis, and it's
impossible to overstate how much emotional support means in such situations,"
says Dr. Sharon Langshur, the founder of CarePages, whose son Matthew had
multiple surgeries and hospitalizations soon after his birth. "Our members
constantly tell us how much they appreciate these personal connections, and
more and more studies are showing that they also contribute to positive health
outcomes."
About CarePages
CarePages.com is the largest online community of people helping each other
cope with the emotional challenges of a medical situation. More than three
million CarePages.com members have used its free, patient-centric web pages to
communicate and connect with each other, plus its unique resources to guide
them through the experience. In addition, customized CarePages are offered by
nearly 700 U.S. and Canadian healthcare facilities. CarePages, Inc. is part of
Revolution Health Group LLC, whose goal is to help consumers make informed
choices and put them in control of their health decisions through the
cornerstone of its efforts -- RevolutionHealth.com. Together, these services
address both the emotional and informational health care needs of its members.
For more information, please visit http://www.carepages.com.
SOURCE CarePages.com
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