Published: November 29, 2007
This Holiday Season Don't Avoid the Mistletoe
If you're in a relationship the holidays can be a stressful time of year. Romantic getaways and finding the perfect gift can take away from the joy of being together as a couple. These expectations can often lead to fighting rather than canoodling. Add to that the endless shopping, errands to run, and travel plans with your kids, and your relationship might be the first thing to suffer.
Switching modes from holiday stress to romance in relationships isn't always easy. The Ten Minute Sexual Solution by Darcy Laudzers offers ways to restart your love life easily in just ten minutes a day. So don't avoid the mistletoe this year. Here is what Darcy suggests to take this holiday season's 'fa la la la la' to 'ooh la la.'
THE TALK: Talk about the solution, not the problem. This is an invitation to begin to talk about wanting change in your intimate and relationship. Keep your talk positive. How would you like your relationship to be? Focus on improving, not criticizing your partner.
COMMUNICATE: Tell each other what words or phrases you feel comfortable with and what words may be a turn-off (or turn-on!).
PLAY TOGETHER: Find two shared activities to do each week. This should be easy during the holidays when you can ice-skate, sit by the fire, catch a movie, or pick out gifts together. Increasing your time together will increase your intimacy!
KISS FOR A MINUTE: Kiss for just one minute a day with not strings attached. Relax and enjoy the moment.
LIGHT A FIRE: Romantic music, chocolate, candles- do something to inspire your romantic side.
This holiday when you're stressed, relax and take a breath. The truth is that it's possible to be everything to everybody and still experience the sensual pleasures of your relationship. The Ten Minute Sexual Solution is a simple way to improve that relationship with less anxiety and more pleasure- for you and your significant other.
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